Individuals say to dwell with out regrets, however all of us have a factor or two that we remorse doing (or not doing). This thread requested individuals, “What’s one factor you remorse not doing once you have been youthful?” and the responses are VERY relatable. Here’s what some individuals shared.
“Turning down invitations and alternatives to fulfill new individuals and journey to new locations as a result of I used to be too hung up on how I appeared. I used to be so exhausting on myself. And to her, I apologize.”
“Be a young person. I used to be too desperate to develop up and centered virtually solely on work from 15–25, so I missed out on the entire thing.”
“Remedy. I ought to have began at 14 as a substitute of 24, this is able to have prevented a lot of the dumb issues I did.”
“Listed here are a pair — make understanding a interest, handle your pores and skin, use moisturizer and sunscreen. Take higher care of your tooth, spend extra time along with your mother and father, and seize these moments via images and movies.”
“Trying again on what number of alternatives I didn’t understand I had as a result of I used to be an fool and didn’t choose up what I now understand as heavy alerts from women to make a transfer.”
“Specializing in faculty and going to varsity for one thing I truly need to do. I’m 34 now, and whereas I make $150k a yr, I discover my career a large waste of time. I work loopy additional time hours and journey, resulting in no life. The trades aren’t all they’re cracked as much as me. Hopefully subsequent yr I can enroll and shoot for a grasp’s in psychology to be a therapist. Fuck sacrificing life for a test. I’ve no youngsters, and I’m newly single so now’s the time.”
“Being a greater boyfriend to superior women I dated when youthful.”
“Having the arrogance to make my very own choices and never depend on individuals to ‘encourage’ me.”
“Spending extra time with my animals. They have been gone before I anticipated, and I remorse each single time I complained about strolling the canine or skipped a driving lesson as a result of I used to be too busy moping in my room. Respect them whereas they’re there, otherwise you’ll remorse it endlessly like I do.”
“Making an attempt too exhausting to maintain buddies once they used me and took benefit of my kindness. I’ve realized that not everybody needs to be your buddy, and I am okay with that.”
Do you might have any regrets from once you have been youthful? If that’s the case, share them with me within the feedback beneath.